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[akindplace]

sometimes someone will tell you an incredibly judgmental opinion on you or on your life and it will be completely invalidating and it will be based only on their ignorance on whatever they are talking about and as hurtful as that invalidation is you should not assume that everyone will think the same way, even if they are sure they are telling an absolute truth. that is a weird thing to do in the first place and you don’t have to prove yourself to someone who believes they have constant moral or intellectual superiority. they’re an exception, not the rule. no one is judging you so hard and it’s okay if you don’t want to hang around someone who constantly puts you down or makes you feel like you don’t belong. just don’t assume everyone else agrees with them without ever giving other people a chance.

most often people are just dealing with their own problems and they are not scrutinizing every little thing you do, and you don’t have to act like someone else’s opinion of you is the whole truth just because they want that you to, especially when it’s based of no knowledge or experience and it carries so much prejudice. if you can walk away from those types of discussions, please do. don’t justify everything you do to someone who is committed to judging you based on their misconceptions and it’s not willing to see things from another perspective. I just promise you not everyone will be like them

[hadesoftheladies]

”you’re biased against men!” but am I wrong?

[dreamaboutwhathappens]

the are few lyrics that make me sadder than “familiarity breeds contempt” because uhm. no it doesn’t? irritation sometimes maybe. but there is something so sinister about the idea that the more people got to know her, the more they disliked her. and the way she talks about it in bejeweled is accepting that as fact and saying “but here’s why i can still be worthy of your love.” and it’s DEVASTATING.

i mean think about it. the old quilt your grandma made. your stuffed animal you’ve hugged countless times. the relief you feel when you finally get to see the person who understands you best. how nice it is to be in your home town after being away for too long. familiarity doesn’t breed contempt. it breeds peace. but someone made her feel like getting to know her made her seem worse

[biowho]

One of the fun experiences I’ve had with the dragon age fan base here on tumblr.com in the last 10+ years is that folks put their vent/hate posts in that character’s main tags. It’s only after I reblog it and I get the vague post/rb about how something I was excited about and thought was being celebrated was actually getting shitted on by someone who spends their day being angry about a fictional man 🫳🌱

(Yes this is about solavellan mattering in Veilguard if you make the choice for it to)

[angelnumber27]

your mental illnesses, disabilities, your trauma etc and the way those things have effected you and your life are not your fault. Don’t ever let anybody convince you otherwise- including yourself <3

[whippedcloudsofcream]

It’s so funny talking to any Soulsborne game characters because they all act so high and mighty or sweet and shy, then the next time you see them they’re either dead or batshit insane.

[usefulquotes7]

Just because you think you’re worthless doesn’t make it true. Unknown

[gothicprep]

big fan of this because tumblr didn’t exist in 2006

[jeyneofpoole]

average asoiaf tiktoker ‘top ten jon snow #coldest moments 🥶💯’ vs average girl on tumblr FIGHT. COUGHING BABY vs HYDROGEN BOMB

[sword-and-stars]

My hot take is that unsalted butter makes no difference in the flavor of my bakes and that buying it separate when I exclusively use salted butter for everything is dumb and silly, and an instruction that I will continue to ignore.

[jemmo]

i finally got the time to watch love is better the second time around and im not at all shocked that im obsessed with the adult second chance at love jbl - have you met me.

but it also needs to be known that shiraishi is my beloved, the actor plays this role so perfectly and i want my bitchy sad gay to find true love

[nicomoon69]

improving in art rlly ends up being learn new skill and forget an old one you really didn’t wanna forget

[anamericangirl]

"Life is precious!" - sheltered people like you who have everything perfectly easy all the time, have never had to struggle, have always had a support system, have always had unconditional love, and have never had any real problems aside from people making fun of you on the internet.

Well if thinking the lives of people who struggle in life or don’t have support systems or unconditional love are worthless and not precious is sheltered than I’m glad to have been sheltered.

I don’t know how you grew up that made you think if people struggle their lives are worthless but that’s horrible and you’re pretty awful for even putting that out there.

I don’t think it’s sheltered at all to have more capacity to appreciate human life than you do.

It’s sad you think life only matters if it’s perfect. you’re a very uneducated person.

[sadtimesnorhymes]

I hope no one ever has to feel the feeling of longing for something for 15+ years. To crave a type of love for 15+ years and be denied it at every turn. To put yourself out there time and time again only to be rejected and told you’re not good enough. To be made to feel wrong for existing. For being told that you have no place in a scene because of your body. To be made to feel inferior because you don’t meet the cookie cutter. To have the constant feeling of rejection and disillusionment crush your soul day after day for over 15 years. To take the desperate scraps of what you are given and say thank you for tolerating my disgusting body enough. To be made to apologize for being yourself and it not being good enough.

[barbiegirldream]

i’m actually so fucking pissed off at benchers. they single handedly ruined lore for so many people. 

like sapnap and george. like at the start of this year george did a massive lore stream that was clearly really well through out and he left open so many possibilities for his character and motivations. and sapnap had developed his character to be a retired soldier basically who wanted nothing more to settle down with his fiancés. but then these fucking entitled brats threw a god damn temper tantrum over minecraft mobs. a mob none of the ccs give a fuck about.  it made sapnap not want to develop his character but instead just piss off twitter. it clearly turned george off from even logging into the server to do anything. it means c!dream team won’t get their resolution after all that build up. unless sapnap and george are going to be home from LA and doing lore today which i just don’t see as very likely. 

tommy’s fans wanna cry boycott now after they spent two entire years making lore miserable and fucking insufferable for fans and ccs alike? no drop dead. you have sent unending harassment over a minecraft roleplay. you have tried to make moral judgements based on what characters people enjoy. you behaved like such children you made tommy not want to play with his friends because he knew you’d all be acting terribly on twitter. and now you think that you personally know more about dream than him. you think you’re helping by insulting the lore tommy is so proud of? you’re not doing anything worthwhile which i mean could probably sum up your whole lives but still.

Every single one of you Should be upset about missing lore. you Should be sad. you don’t deserve to Ever enjoy this shit again you never did. Leave. Literally no one is going to miss you. 

[wykart]

The cognitive dissonance of recognising my job is bullshit and not giving a shit about it while also being a workaholic little anxious mess obsessed with efficiency.